If you read this someday you may find the title of this post with its accompanying photograph a tad harsh. Please remember that I am making the tired but important distinction between you and your behavior. You are not stupid; unfortunately your behavior was.
Oh my fair one–you of the white and freckle-prone skin, you of the multiple grandparents who have battled skin cancer, you of the lifetime slathered in sunscreen, oh what were you thinking?
Your Mama didn’t tell you to wear a shirt in order to harass you; your Mama told you to wear a shirt because she loves you. You chose the path of disobedience. You reaped the whirlwind of scarlet skin, blisters, and the oozing, raw aftermath. Your Mama would have undone the price of your misbehavior for you if she could–but she couldn’t. However, your suffering did give Mama hope. Hope that you would know better in the future, not just about your skin but about the law of act and consequence.
So, today when Mama saw you outside with your still healing blisters exposed to the sun, scrambling to re-don the shirt only when you saw her, Mama felt sad for her boy. It looks like there are blisters ahead–and not just for the skin. Not connecting the act with the consequence–that’s what stupid looks like.